suzi1780
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So I had an adventure today! My boyfriend, James has been having problems with one of his employees at work. The woman seems to be mental ill and has been telling people at work that James and her are dating. She has even said that James didn't go to Hawaii (we went together about a month ago), instead he was with her... umm I think I would know if my boyfriend wasn't in Hawaii with me! She has also started leaving him crazy voicemails, in them she has called me and his parents bad names and recently she wrote him some crazy 4 page letter. James gave everything over to HR at work so they could handle things... well today the woman called him at around 12:20pm and said she was on her way to our house because she wanted to talk to me!! The only way she could know where we live is if she has followed James home from work, also we live in a condo so if she followed him she would only know what building we lived in (unless she followed him into the building which I think he would have noticed) we did have our names on our mailbox and front door so when we got the call, I told James to run done and take the names off so she wouldn't know what apartment we were in. So at around 12:30 we see her walking to our building!!!! I called the 911 (and was put on hold!) I told them what was going on and they said they would have someone out soon. So we grab the critters and shut ourselves up in the bedroom, I also told James to grab a kitchen knife because I felt like we needed something with us. So the woman calls his cell phone a few times and then leaves a message saying that she will be at our apartment at 1:30pm and that she knows our apartment number.... so that means she has been to our house before and seen our names on the mailbox and or on the door!! She also said in her message "you think I am crazy, I will show you crazy, your think I am a b**** I will show you a b****. At this point I called 911 again and sure enough at 1:30 she came walking to our apartment again (she had left and had been sitting in her car we guess) and this time she knocked at the door. I told 911 that she was now banging on the door and was leaving threatening messages. They said they would have someone there ASAP but all the officers were still busy. Crazy woman went back to her car and drove in around and parked it in front of building - it had been somewhere where we didn't see it. The police called me and I let them know where she was parked and that there was someone else in the car with her. Around 2pm the cops finally got here and she was still parked in the same spot, sitting in her car. She was calling James's phone and leaving him voice mails saying that she had left, we assume she was trying to get us to come out. The cops ran up to her car and pulled the two women out and talked to them. After a few mins an officer can up to our door and we explained everything. The cop did pull James away from me so they could ask him if anything she was saying was true - of course it's not. She also told the cops that James had left me and gone to live with her for two months and just moved back in and she was here to tell me about this, umm I think I would have known if my boyfriend moved out for two months! The cop also told James that she could tell within 5 mins of speaking to the woman, that she was not mentally stable.
So we have to get some type of order because of the phone calls, since she is using bad language in her messages. The cop also told us to ask about getting a "peace order" and we have to write our condo association and ask them to send her a letter stating that she is not allowed on the property. We can't get a full restraining order until she does something really crazy I guess. If she comes back the cop said to call 911 and she can be arrested for trespassing, since the cops tell her she wasn't allowed to come around. The cops also told her not to call him, which she has already done 3 times since they told her not to, so I am going to call the officer tomorrow and let her know.
We did go out today and I got some pepper spray, I certainly don't want a gun or anything like that but I feel like I need something to protect myself
argh what a day!!
So we have to get some type of order because of the phone calls, since she is using bad language in her messages. The cop also told us to ask about getting a "peace order" and we have to write our condo association and ask them to send her a letter stating that she is not allowed on the property. We can't get a full restraining order until she does something really crazy I guess. If she comes back the cop said to call 911 and she can be arrested for trespassing, since the cops tell her she wasn't allowed to come around. The cops also told her not to call him, which she has already done 3 times since they told her not to, so I am going to call the officer tomorrow and let her know.
We did go out today and I got some pepper spray, I certainly don't want a gun or anything like that but I feel like I need something to protect myself
argh what a day!!
