As someone else noted, this post may have TMI in it, so if you want to stop reading here, that's cool.
My primary method of birth control is NuvaRing used in conjunction with condoms. The reason for the barrier method is because I am on a medication that decreases the effectiveness of birth control medications, particularly those that are processed through the liver (e.g., oral contraceptives). Even though NuvaRing bypasses the liver for its delivery method, the boyfriend and I still use a barrier method just to be safe.
NuvaRing is my second attempt at a non-oral contraceptive. I think it's a good method and I'm content to stay on it. My cycle settled down quickly on it (after it got off-kilter while on the patch), my moods got a little better, but my PMS headaches have become bad again. I like the 21 days in-7 days out cycle, and I also like not having to worry about whether or not it was in my system long enough if I wind up being sick. I don't feel it, but I have pushed a little too hard/long while trying to poo and wound up starting to push the ring out instead (so it *can* happen - just rarely). The BF says he feels it during intimate times, but he says he doesn't mind it. I can't feel it, but I can't help but think it must be weird for him (even though he says it isn't).
My first attempt at non-oral contraceptives, mentioned earlier, was the patch (Ortho Evra). It moved, it sometimes fell off, it would pull on my skin or bunch up, the adhesive irritated my skin much worse than normal bandages, and it just didn't seem to keep me as regulated as the pill had.
So, with that said, I was on the BCP for years and my pill of choice, Triphasil-28, worked well for me. At one point, I switched from Triphasil to Tri Levelen because of insurance costs. It caused irregularities in my cycle and my moods. I switched back to Triphasil after a few months when the BF offered to split the cost of getting me back on a pill I preferred and didn't mess up my system. As I mentioned at the beginning of all this, the only reason I went off the pill was because of the other medication that interferes with it. Still, at this point, I doubt I'd go back to the BCP even if I do get off the other medication.
---Lisa Ann