Neither of my two liked to be grabbed, so I never did. Demon was purchased as a male at a petstore that I used to work at and was sold to me by someone I trusted. I never got a good look at down there until Friday, when I realized she was not a male. I had actually thought the other was a male(that I had 2 males), although sold as a female by someone less than reputable, but I confirmed that she is also a definite girl. I had a feeling people would see that and be confused but I really wasn't interested in typing all of that out while she was in need of so much care. I realize I may seem less than responsible for that oversight, but that was the only thing I was lax about. Sorry for the confusion.
Thanks for the kind thoughts, everyone.
Thanks for the kind thoughts, everyone.