Update on Deonna's family.

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Diva Chins

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As most of you know, my best friend Deonna was 'taken home' in mid January. At the time both of her children (17 month old girl, 7 month old boy) both had upper respiratory infections and just felt yucky. I'm pleased to say that Michael is doing better, but Emilee (I think it was this at least, can't remember, I was sort of out of it) has viral pneumonia. The poor girl has had it rough. So, please keep little miss Emilee and little mister Michael in your prayers tonight, as well as Deonna's adopted mother (biological grandma, long story) and her adopted father (Biological grandpa). It's really been a struggle on her adopted mom since she's trying to gain parental rights over Emilee and Michael as well as get rights to Deonna's estate, etc. The law system is making it VERY tricky.
Also, she's going through Deonna's things...She's donating most of her clothes (Except for her favorite things like her Motley Crue t-shirts) to charity so right now she's going through her things, it's a hard time...They did set up a little 'memorial' for her at the house, an entire table beside the door full of her pictures and favorite figurines that she got over the years (I felt so proud when the picture I had of Deonna was right upfront, and the mama bear, daddy bear and baby bear figurine I gave her was upfront too).
It's a very hard loss, but we all pray that if any other woman in the world is going through abuse that they would be inspired by her story to find the courage to leave. I'm not a religious person, but I think they'd very much appreciate prayers.
Also, I don't know if anyone would be interested...But as you can imagine with Diane being Deonna's biological grandma and attempting to adopt her kids, she won't have much money, so everyone got together and made a trust fund for the two and we're having fund raisers and things to put money in there for their future. If anyone is interested or something, I feel awkward asking...But I could tell you the bank that it's at, I'd have to call my Aunt (My Aunt was her manager at work) and get the name of the bank, I know the name of the account is the Emilee and Michael Hiatt trust fund or something like that, pardon my memory.
Well, thanks for reading, some people were asking which is why I chose to post this. Also, thanks in advance for any prayers and thanks to everyone for their kindness in such a hard time. It means a lot to me as her best friend and a lot to her family. She touched a lot of lives, was a very sweet girl and had ambitions of being a lawyer. We lost a dreamer, but we'll always have her dreams.
 
Wow, this is the first I have heard of your sad news, I am so sorry for your loss and I feel terrible for her family as well. I hope that Emilee recovers quickly and wish them all the best.
 
I dont know what happened to your dear friend but im sorry for you loss and her familys sorrow. I hope her children recover quickly and her adopted mom gets the rights she deserves.
 
I dont know what happened to your dear friend but im sorry for you loss and her familys sorrow. I hope her children recover quickly and her adopted mom gets the rights she deserves.

Addictedtochins is right...
She was in the process of divorcing her husband because of his anger issues, went to meet him one night to take him back to the house to see the children. He grabbed her, pulled her in the truck, tied her feet together with her own jacket, beat her, then shot her in the head. Police didn't even know til they responded to a breaking and entering call at his uncle's business where he had a backhoe tractor digging a hole to dump her in. She was still alive, but unresponsive. The doctors at the hospital had her on life support, but the brain damage was too severe. They took her off life support for 10 minutes, no signs of living on her own, so they hooked her back up and harvested her organs since she was an organ donor. Her adopted mom gets to meet the families of the people her organs are going to, that makes her feel better about it, but it's no consolation.
 
wow how unbelievable sad. I hope that man rots in Jail for what he did, and what an amazing person she is giving life to people who may other wise not have it.
 
wow how unbelievable sad. I hope that man rots in Jail for what he did, and what an amazing person she is giving life to people who may other wise not have it.

We're all proud of her. I said on CnQ, she was going to school for a paralegal degree and wanted to go to a different college after to be a lawyer. She was SO smart, so loving, so kind. We all really do miss her.
I hope he rots as well...But right now, he's not even in jail. He's in a hospital getting pain killers because he opened gun fire on deputies and they shot back, shot through his intestines and now he has a colostomy bag. It infuriates me that he's sitting there living it up in a hospital, getting doped up on pain killers for something he brought on himself.
 
I am very sorry for your loss. Have you thought of a "Deonna Lynn Association for the Prevention of Domestic Abuse"? I think it would be a great honor and victims of domestic abuse could go there and get help, etc.
 
Omg i didnt realize it was you because you had the new name. i remember reading the article and i think it even showed up on our news. im sorry girl! im glad your back too
 
Tiffany,
If I remember correctly this happened in your state of North Carolina? They have the death penalty there--I hope he doesn't rot in prison, instead meets his maker in the way of the Devil's domain.

I pray for you--that the loss of your best friend will be eased through time.
I pray for her children, that someday they will learn to trust and learn to love- I imagine anyone who knows their father killed their mother may never choose to marry--I hope this will not be the case for them. I hope they will have children of their own they can tell stories of their wonderful mother to.
 
Tiffany,
If I remember correctly this happened in your state of North Carolina? They have the death penalty there--I hope he doesn't rot in prison, instead meets his maker in the way of the Devil's domain.

I pray for you--that the loss of your best friend will be eased through time.
I pray for her children, that someday they will learn to trust and learn to love- I imagine anyone who knows their father killed their mother may never choose to marry--I hope this will not be the case for them. I hope they will have children of their own they can tell stories of their wonderful mother to.

Yes, we live in North Carolina, thankfully he didn't make it to the VA boarder where he was planning to do it...
In one way, I do want him to get the death penalty, but in another way I think it's too easy of a way out for him. He is COVERED with Nazi tattoos (Hitler's eagle, the SS tattoo, etc) so when he goes to jail in Raleigh which has quite a few black residents I can guarantee he's not going to be given an easy time. I have mixed feelings about what I want the outcome to be, I guess for now I just have to wait on the court system.
I don't know, me and her adopted mother have talked about it and we both have the same confusion of emotions. She hopes that if he does die, it'll be at the hands of a 'big butch boy' as she put it in a less censored way. I'm still straddling the fence on this one.
 
I am so sorry for your loss Tiffany, what a horrible situation. I think life in prison is worse than death, but the best of all is an eternity in H***. People like him do not go unpunished, and a lifetime in a jail cell is not punishment enough. He will get what is coming to him.
 
What a tragic situation. I'm so sorry for your loss, you and the family will be in my thoughts.
 
Don't worry Tiffany if he does get the death penalty he'll get the best of both horrible worlds. He will be in the prison system for quite some time--hopefully getting the beat down and then on to the humane euthansia he doesn't deserve. But he will suffer at the hands of his maker that's for certain.

I'm so sorry for your loss Tiffany. I know Deonna looks over you with love everyday. I hope your time apart will one day be bearable for you. I'm happy to know when you are called home she will be waiting for you with open arms.
 
It's still painful. I broke down the other day crying to Tasha because I HATE it, I hate thinking her last words might have been "Please Scott don't, don't let our children grow up without parents". I've drove myself insane thinking of her last words, last actions, whether she cried and begged for him not to, it makes me sick and I don't think the death penalty or anything could be enough unless he died in a real sadist's hands, otherwise a needle in his arm is the worst he's going to feel.
I don't know anymore, she LOVED Motley Crue and Nikki Sixx, he was her fav and now that he's came out with his own CD, she'll never get to hear it and that drives me crazy. I thought about buying it, getting a boom box and sitting beside of her grave and playing it so maybe, just maybe she could hear it and leave the CD with her.
Other than donating bone marrow and blood, I don't know what else I could do to help keep her memory alive. I don't exactly have the money to help save the rainforest, I've been trying to contact the local animal shelter to see if I could volunteer but I haven't gotten a reply yet, they're probably busy or something, I don't know. Any ideas? I'm going to have mom take me to see the babies today, I miss them.
 
This evil man will have to live with what he done and I hope everyday it preys on his conscience how he snuffed out his wife's life and denied their 2 little children of a mother's love:cry3:

Deonna was obviously a very special person, and although it might be of little consolation, her selfless act of donating her organs has given life to others who might probably be dead by now:hug::grouphug:


But he will suffer at the hands of his maker that's for certain.

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I agree 100%.

Whatever "punishment" is meted out on this evil brute, one day he will answer to a Greater Power and his punishment will be much greater than what any court of law could dish out:yuck:
 
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