MaryRussell
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I am new to this forum, so I would like to say a quick hello to everyone.
I have a friend who has an estranged partner (I say just strange) and that partner has a LOT of Chinchillas that they are neglecting, sometimes for days. Leaving them without food and / or water, and often giving them minimal amounts of food even when they do make some time to see them. The other partner tries to help but they are allergic to dust and other things which makes them self ill when they try to help. The worst part is the partner which owns the Chinchillas neglects them so they can spend hours and hours with another friend so they can play with their horses. This other friend does not care, and the partner in question seems to think that them being at work all day, then at the friends is Ok. They even have a young son which they do not see because of the other 'Friend' and 'Horses' which they care much more about.
Do you have any suggestions what I should do. They seem to think it is fine for a 'Rodent' as they call it to go a day or more without food and water, and that includes Chins with new babies. I don't think it is OK at all, but in the past when I have tried to mention anything they have retaliated against me.
I am curious if anyone thinks it is OK to neglect Chinchillas and a little boy (let alone their partner) so they can spend time with another friend so they can play horses and play Zuma and Bejewled on Facebook at their friends house for hours on end. The other partner even messages them and the friend to let them know that the animals need care, but they just ignore it. Everyone I talk to says that it is not OK but them.
Please help.
I have a friend who has an estranged partner (I say just strange) and that partner has a LOT of Chinchillas that they are neglecting, sometimes for days. Leaving them without food and / or water, and often giving them minimal amounts of food even when they do make some time to see them. The other partner tries to help but they are allergic to dust and other things which makes them self ill when they try to help. The worst part is the partner which owns the Chinchillas neglects them so they can spend hours and hours with another friend so they can play with their horses. This other friend does not care, and the partner in question seems to think that them being at work all day, then at the friends is Ok. They even have a young son which they do not see because of the other 'Friend' and 'Horses' which they care much more about.
Do you have any suggestions what I should do. They seem to think it is fine for a 'Rodent' as they call it to go a day or more without food and water, and that includes Chins with new babies. I don't think it is OK at all, but in the past when I have tried to mention anything they have retaliated against me.
I am curious if anyone thinks it is OK to neglect Chinchillas and a little boy (let alone their partner) so they can spend time with another friend so they can play horses and play Zuma and Bejewled on Facebook at their friends house for hours on end. The other partner even messages them and the friend to let them know that the animals need care, but they just ignore it. Everyone I talk to says that it is not OK but them.
Please help.