Need to vent about the family !!

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Siany

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I am sooo mad !!!

My nan has not been very well over the past couple of years and because she has been so ill she has had to come and live with us, i love having my nan here because she has such a great personality. My nan has been in and out of hospital and the other year she spent christmas in the hospital, i have two aunties (my nans daughters) who were going in to see her but told my mom that they did not want her to live with them because they did not what her to die in their house.

I was mad but i kept it to my self and let my mom deal with it, my one auntie lives over the road and the other one doesnt live that far away, she comes over once a week to see my nan. When my auntie is here she starts going on about the chinchillas being rats and again i have just held my tongue. Last week i was waiting for one more thing to be said because she was just having a go at me.

Well me and my mom was having a laugh about the animals in the house and i wrote a status on facebook, anyone who knows me would know i was joking and now my cousin has started going off on me..this is what i wrote..

Well my mom dissagrees with a built in chinchilla cage, a parrot room and getting Sampson a mate...so now he cant have little baby macaws and be a husband parrot and daddy parrot....oh well back to the drawing board !!

We have been arguing and i told her if she read my comment she would know i wrote mostly about the parrot and i also told her she has no right to have a go at me because she does not live in this house, they have always had a go at me and im sick of it. It does upset me to have a go at family but they do nothing here and leave my mom to cope, my mom suffers from severe depression and it makes me mad that they do not support her.

Sorry i had to rant, i mean isnt family supposed to stick together !! :cry3:
 
Ah, the plagues of family! My family is a pretty tight one...but there are a few members who are just evil (I swear some of them have black souls) Anyhow, in regards to your rant...I'd tell her off. It's total crap that YOU have to have your nan live with you when she has children of her own. Not that you mind, as you said, but it's just the fact that THEY should be more than willing to take care of her. And your house? Are they serious? I mean, it's YOUR house...I think THEY need to worry about THEIR shortcomings, not yours. Take care and have faith.
 
Thanks i feel a little calm now, today they came round ....to see my nan and my cousin ignored me (i mean she couldnt even have the guts to look at me) I just cant be bothered with them anymore and my auntie actually tried to blame my nans breathing troubles on the chinchillas, i find this funny as my nan has been really tired lately and has been spending her time in her room so i dont understand how the chinchillas are at fault when my nan isnt around them. Im just going to keep my chin up and concentrate on the family that matters !!
 
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