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Stackie

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I know some people were wanting me to post updates about my grandpa and his battle with cancer. Unfortunately, I don't have much good news.

This past few weeks he has severely deteriorated to the point where he can no longer get out of bed. The steroids he has been taking to reduce the swelling from the tumor in his brain have essentially caused his muscles to "turn to jelly" in the words of the doctor, and the chemo treatments have only added to his weakness. All he can do anymore is sleep. We can't get him to eat anything, and he will only drink maybe 8 oz. of fluid each day. He is so stubborn that he will not go to the hospital. He says that if he goes in, he'll never come out.

The MRI's have shown no shrinking of the tumor in his brain, so it does not look like the gamma knife surgery had any effect. They have found another spot on the opposite side of his brain that looks like another tumor.

I think he's given up, and the only reason he's holding on is to see his new grandson that was just born yesterday. He has told my grandmother and I several times this week that he is dying. It breaks my heart to know that he is giving up, but he's been battling this for 10 years now, I can't blame him.

Please keep my grandfather & my family in your thoughts and prayers. We really do need it at this time.
 
My mother left due to cancer although one of the most serenne experiences cause we had the time with her, still it is hard to let go.

Stacie, my heart and thoughts are with you and yours.
 
I'm very sorry Stack. I know how close you are to your grandparents and I know how hard this must be for you and your grandma.

I will keep you guys in my thoughts and prayers. I hope your grandpa can find some peace.
 
Stacie I understand exactly how you feel right at this exact moment. I pray for your grandfather to find peace everyday. I know in my heart he will go to a much better place Stacie, but that doesn't make the pain of losing him any easier on you or your grandma.
I'm thankful he understands the journey he is about to embark on, that is such a calm you cannot know unless you have someone who fights it, as Lisa did.
I'm thankful for all the time he had with you and your grandma.

I'm so sorry Stacie, words just fail me, but my arms reach out to everyone of you.
 
Just went through this with my mother - they seem to know when it's time.
All you can do is say your goodbye's and know they're going to a better place!
 
Stackie, I am sorry your family is going through this. I lost my mom to a brain tumor 2 years ago. The only thing I can think that might help is see if you can get him into a wheelchair or maybe he has a dining room chair on wheels and try to get him into the family room? Or maybe you could bring his favorite chair into his bedroom to get him sitting up. At least get some pillows to prop him into a slightly upright position in bed. Why you ask? A little thing like that can help him feel a little better and be able to eat and drink a little better. Putting pillows under his knees and arms will feel good too. I understand he's difficult and will likely refuse. But we can try huh? You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Theresa
 
I just wanted to let everyone know that my grandpa passed peacefully this evening. Thank you to everyone for their support, especially to Laurie who has never hesitated to offer her help...
 
I am very sorry for your family's loss, my thoughts are with you.
 
I'm so sorry for your loss Stacie. It is a blessing that he no longer needs to suffer, I'll keep you and your family in my prayers during this hard time.

:flowers8:
 
Stacie,
I'm so sorry to hear about your grandpa. I'm so glad I gave you my number today, and even more glad you called me. This is a very difficult time for you and your grandma and I know this only too well. I know how much you loved your grandpa and how strong of a man he was. Blessings to you and him both for his long battle of 10 years with this.
In my heart I know he dances with angels today, and is now pain and CANCER free.
There are many things we think cancer can take from us, but everlasting life is not one of them.
Call me if you need me, I'm here in anyway you need me.

XXX OOO!
 
I am sorry and sad for your family. I'm sure he now at peace and is watching over all of you. RIP
 
Thank you everyone. It's been very hectic with all the family coming by today. He wanted to be cremated, and the first thing I thought of is about Lisa and how it was mentioned that at least the cancer will be destroyed, finally, that way. I mentioned this to my family and we all took comfort in that.
 
Yes Stacie cremation destroys the heinous cancer once and for all! Nothing thrilled us more than to know after a long 8 year battle we would not be putting Lisa's body into the ground with cancer in it! So I heartily say yes to cremation--take that cancer!
 
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