It's offiicial, I have no friends anymore.

[Diva Chins]

So right now I'm a bit upset as one can imagine. First I lose my best friend to a psychotic, severely sick man, now I lose my other best friend because apparently she's jealous of what I have and wants to lie about it.
My 'friend' called me tonight flinging accusations of MY fiance cheating on me with her. She told me the supposed day, it was a lie.
She said it was the same day that I spent time with Deonna (rest her soul) for Christmas, Wednesday the 17th of December because her and my schedules were other wise packed. He WORKS Monday through Friday nights, leaves the house at 1:30 PM to be there in time, she's not usually awake til 3 in the afternoon. Even if they'd supposedly hung out after he got off of work, he has to be home by 11:30 (gets off at 11) or his step-dad won't get up to let him in the house. So, I call bull crap on her.
I know for a fact he worked that night because I checked my phone records to make sure, it has him calling me at his 5:30 break, 7:30 break, and his 9:30 break and if he calls me on his 9:30 break, then he always has to work until 11. And if he has to work at 11 and be home at 11:30, where in the world does the time fit? She lives 5 minutes from me further away, it takes him 30 minutes to get to my house, it doesn't fit.
She's trying to say he had that day off, when my phone records say otherwise. It has him calling at every single break. She says he had that day off when my phone records, once again, say otherwise. She says that they went to his cousin Coco's house when just a few weeks ago she wanted to meet Coco insanely bad because she'd never met him before.
Does this sound right to yall? We're doing a 3 way call at 11 so they can fight it out, I don't know what to believe at this point, but I can tell you I believe him right now because the facts say so.

 

[Chinzilla]

Facts don't typically lie.

Sorry about the crappy friend situation...it really is just crappy. You've been through a lot. Good luck working it all out. New, truer friends will come along in time that will help you heal from your losses and deceptions. That's not to say that you can replace people that you've lost, but you will heal. It sounds like you have a good man.
:hug2:

 

[pricklesnquills]

You need to absolutely trust your fiance, or else you shouldn't be marrying him. If you don't trust him, then even if he does nothing wrong you marriage will not last. If you think he does do something like that, then again, you shouldn't marry him.

I'm really sorry about your friend! *hugs*

 

[threewingedfury]

Girl, you need to start your own blog, seriously. Maybe you can write a book because you have SO much drama in your life! I can't say much, mines just about as bad, haha.

 

[Diva Chins]

Girl, you need to start your own blog, seriously. Maybe you can write a book because you have SO much drama in your life! I can't say much, mines just about as bad, haha.

Heck, I could write a soap opera. It'd be the best ever. She keeps sending texts to my e-mails saying "Sorry your fiance is such an a**hole, blah blah blah" and I"m sitting here like "Psht. Whateva."
He actually came over to my house at midnight to comfort me. He even played with the chinnies <3 Facts don't lie, but jealous people do!
She didn't say anything about it until she asked what I was doing for Valentines day and I started bragging. Hmm...Jealous much?

 

[Jeanette]

If that were someone saying that about my significant other, I would just roll my eyes. Puh-leeese!

I would never be in a relationship where I couldn't trust someone %100.
I'm not saying I would be blind to the fact that someone could mess up, but you've really just got to cut to the bottom of things. And that means ignoring all of the drama she throws your way.

 

[Jeanette]

Oh, and I've got a lying friend story too...

In highschool, one of my 'friends' claimed that she was raped.
She tried to blame it on the guy I was with (straight A student with an after school job, etc.).
He was with me all after school (when she claimed it happened) at DQ.
Then, a month later, he and I parted and I started talking/flirting with a different guy.
She then tries to tell me that it was actually the new guy I was flirting with who had raped her... (even told the cops this!)

Well, a few weeks after this, she marched herself down to the police station and told them that she lied and was never touched and said that she had mental issues (duh!).
The cops later charged her with public mischief (public or criminal, or something... I can't remember the title exactly).

I come from a fairly stable background and would never hang out with violent/controlling guys. I don't know where she got the idea that she could blame it on my friends who were all honour-role, nice, respectable kids.
I'm not saying that smart people wouldn't commit crimes, but it raised a few eyebrows when she started blaming it on people who obviously didn't do it.

She was super nice to me the whole time too... She's wack!!

 

[Cola89]

ugh this would be why i dont hang out with females. lol females start crap for no reason and it doesnt make sense lol im so sorry you have to deal with her drama right now.....but dont let it cause your valentines night to be bad

 

[Parkerspetchins]

If you trust your fiance then you have nothing to worry about. That is a really crappy thing to do to a friend, whether it be the lie or more unlikely, the cheating itself, she's nasty.

I just wanted to mention one thing to you that I thought was odd though since your story is a little conflicting to me...you said he was at your house at midnight but prior to that you said he has to be home by 11:30...

 

[HedgeMom]

You seem to be trying awfully hard to alibi him...

 

[Diva Chins]

If you trust your fiance then you have nothing to worry about. That is a really crappy thing to do to a friend, whether it be the lie or more unlikely, the cheating itself, she's nasty.

I just wanted to mention one thing to you that I thought was odd though since your story is a little conflicting to me...you said he was at your house at midnight but prior to that you said he has to be home by 11:30...

He does. He made a special trip to my house last night because of me being so upset and I made him come in and talk to my friend Autumn cause apparently Tasha has been screwing with his mind too. She has his number from when I spent the night with her and called him to see if he wanted to get some breakfast the next morning. She told him I'd been cheating on him with some dude named Alex. Me and him both have came to the agreement if she calls either of us, we're not answering. He's moving in a week anyway, will have a new phone number, etc. She won't know how to contact him, so everything should be fine.
When I called her back and asked her why she'd been talking trash about me, she called me nasty. All I could say is "I'm nasty? I'm not the one going around trying to sleep with another woman's fiance. I'm not the one trying to break someone up in attempts to date them. I'm nasty? Psht, chyeah, that's really it."
Apparently, she's asked him while me and him were having a big argument that I'd told her about and asked him if he dumped me or I dumped him if he'd date her...Not happening, he's classier than white trash and so am I. At the end of the month he's said "I'll bring you my phone bill and show you where she's been calling me and show you I haven't called her" because he's scared to death I don't believe him.
Mom let him come in and stay for a while because she knew everything that was going on. She stayed in her bedroom and let us have privacy so we could talk things out. I didn't want to take him in my bedroom because it was a mess, so we sat on the couch and talked everything out, I got my computer and showed him the records from where he'd called me that night and told him I believed him. It's just a big pile of drama and really getting on my nerves.

And HedgeMom, if he's innocent, why wouldn't I defend him? I've dealt with cheating men before and he is nothing of the sort. 4 years of friendship down the toilet. My mom warned me that she was just a user, she'd use me for whatever I had, then she'd stab me in the back and sure enough. I treated her like she was the best friend in the world. Whenever she didn't have money and we went out some where, I paid for her food and anything she needed. I will be calling her mother, apparently she's been going out at nights and telling her mother that she's spending the night with me and actually going to a motel with random men she meets at K-Marts. So I'm going to tell her mom from now on if she tries to use me as an alibi, that's on her, no way I'm working it out with her this time.