I can tell you right now why the mods/admins don't step in---they, along with several select members who've been here since CandQ, are one big chummy family, so they don't mind when their buddies are disrespectful and express no couth. I have seen one specific member literally attack people on here, call them names (all of which, I thought, was against forum rules), and no one said a word---because this person is one of their apparent proteges. But if someone does that that's not part of the clique, of course they pounce on them like wolves. On top of that, I've been in the chat room where members AND admins/owners gossiped about a member they found annoying. Yeah, doing that is against the rules somewhere too. But as one person explained to me when I questioned it, "I can do it, I (helped start) the joint." :clap: What an excellent example to everyone at this forum.
I've seen said members "defend" their actions/words by saying, "We tell people over and over again to do this, do that, then the people don't listen, and their chins die. It's hard not to get frustrated after awhile." Guess what? NObody's making them be admins/mods. If they're that jaded, maybe they should quit.....they're little help to the constant influx of new members that need all of the help and benefit of the doubt they can get.