Littlechinta - Whether you came to have a grammar lesson or not doesn't matter. We're trying to get you to post in a more comprehensible manner so we can help you. It's very hard to understand your posts. Sometimes I have to read them 3 and 4 times just to make sense of them. A lot of people just won't bother to try and answer because it's very hard to understand what you wrote.
I do think people could have been a bit more sensitive in their comments in regards to this topic, however, don't let it chase you off. You are here to learn about your chin, regardless of whether you post or not, so at least you can get the benefit of reading the threads.