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Brittany

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I want to know how you guys do it? We're getting to the point where we're ready to find my foster kids a new home, and I'm getting very emotional and over protective. Stacie has an adoption application for adopters to fill out, and I know she'll be VERY thorough, but my question is how do you get over letting these innocent animals go to a new home where you can't control how they're cared for? Are there any specific things you do to keep in contact with the adopters? I've only had these girls for about a month but I'm already so connected to them and just want the best for them. Any thoughts or advice that will help me with this are appreciated :)
 
You can make sure you get their phone number and email address, so you can contact them and ask them how everything is going every once in a while. You know you found the right owner when they start sending you pictures of how happy they are!

I've already sent the breeder I bought from pictures of how well they're doing. I think you'll know when you find the right person to adopt them.
 
That's the breaks when you rehome animals. You can interview until you make both of you nuts, but the bottom line is, once they leave your home they are out of your control. People can feed them chicken and there's nothing you can do about it. Those little contracts are cute, but they wouldn't stand up in court, and frankly, who is going to fork out all the bucks to prosecute if something did happen?

You interview, you place the chins, and you hope for the best. That's all you can do.
 
Maybe you can require them to send a photo of the cage they will be using prior to adoption? Could you even supply them with some pellets and hay so you know they will have some supplies that are healthy for them? Make sure they have everything set up and ready for the chins before they bring them home. That way if you see something that's unsafe, you can tell them about it and hopefully they would fix it.

(I'm a new chin owner so I really have no idea about fostering chinchillas, but I just wanted to offer some suggestions that I was thinking of. Feel free to ignore me.)
 
I just want to say I admire anyone willing to do foster, rescue, or even breeding. I know I wouldn't be able to for the very reason you describe. I would be far too attached. A good home seems hard to come by, a perfect fit even harder. But, if you can give them the tools to improve, hopefully they become better with time. I should have never been allowed to leave with Chelsea, my first chin. I admitted I knew nothing, had an aquarium to house her in, etc. I would have never adopted to me! But now she has the best of everything and is spoiled rotten. I guess what I'm saying is even if the applicants don't seem ideal, if they are willing to learn they have potential.
 
hmmm thats why i have 9! i have only let one go. i have another one i am trying to rehome but no one seems interested. it makes me sad because she deserves so much more attention than i can give her but i cant let her go to just anyone!

the one i did rehome, the lady is a member here. she is a real sweetie and she often sends me updates. she emails me pictures and lets me know if he is having a problem. she was a previous chin owner so that made me feel good too.
 
Brittany, I know just what your going through. I had 3 chins that I rescued not to long ago that came from horrible conditions. They were on a poor diet not getting feed daily nor dusted. I took them in and put them on Oxbow, stated dusting every 3rd day, gave them everything they needed. They turned out to be just perfect. I did need to find them good homes. I placed a advertisement and received many emails. I weeded out the good and bad. I had them tell me first what they thought a chin needs,ect. I went to all 3 homes to see the cage set up. I also made all 3 give me vet reference's which I did call. It did take up alot of my time but it was well worth it. I know they are in good homes. Its only been a couple days but I get pictures everyday and updates. I do have a spot in my heart that is empty with them gone as I miss them so much but I knew when I rescued them I couldnt keep them but I could not live with myself leaving them in those conditions. My advise to you is to take the time, make the calls, see the cage set up and ask lots of questions.
 
If you ask me, you should keep them. :D

That's the problem, I want to keep them. However it's because I feel bad for them, and want them to have a good life. Not because I want 3 more pets to enrich my life, and I feel like that's the WRONG reason for wanting them. I know we'll find the right home eventually. I just like to be in control, and I know that once they're gone it's completely up to the new owner to care for them.
 
It is hard to let them go. I've re-homed 4 so far and have another one looking for a good home. In my case, I know they will better off where they can get more attention than I can give them. The rescue I foster for does a great job of prescreening possible adopters. By the time they finally contact me, a proper cage, wheel etc have been obtained and approved so all I have to do is introduce them to the chin. Of course if I get bad vibes I can nix the adoption. I provide plenty of good stuff like a hidey house, tube, fleece, food, treats etc. I write a care sheet and provide my contact information in case they have questions or a problem comes up. The last adopter has been in contact with me several time to check if some treats were OK and to make her more liners.
 
I have our adopters read our care packet (chin care info, safe pet store chews) and then fill out an adoption application. Some questions on our application include things like the type of cage, shelves in the cage, what are good treats, and so on. If they have plastic shelves and show no inclination to want to change those.. they can't adopt. If they have a cage that's mouse-sized, no adopting. Assuming people stick with what they say on the form, I think the grand majority of the people we adopt out to really do care about the chins and want to do what's best for them. I tell people that we're open to them for lifetime of chinchilla support, and they can call/email anytime.. I have people that will call and ask about various things, and I think, you know, they called.... they wanted to be sure they are doing the right thing.

...and I do think the adoption form itself prevents some people, who might not have the chins' best interests at heart, from even trying to adopt. I attached our adoption form just as an example...it asks for name, address, etc. The people who have bad intentions probably don't want to let you know where they live. For every chin we adopt out, I get a variety of people who are interested in adopting the chins... but when I send them the application, I never hear from them again. I don't know exactly why, maybe they can't be bothered to fill something like that out, maybe it's below them, maybe their intentions aren't the best... whatever the case... no application, no adoption. Sorry. The people who do fill it out seem to be the people who really want the best for the chins.

We also do have a section where the person has to agree to contact us before rehoming the chin/animal. Again, no agreement, no adoption. In 9 years, we've only had four animals returned (2 degus, two chins). For three of those, the owners called us back up and asked us to take the animals back (for the fourth, we ran across their ad on a classified site)... I think, though, in the majority of instances, the majority of people really would call us before rehoming the animal, and that gives me some additional peace of mind.

I don't do anything really specific to keep in contact with the adoptive homes.. though I do have their email and their phone number (and address I suppose - all from the form) so I do have options to get ahold of them if needed. Many adoptive homes keep in contact with us completely on their own - they want to let us know how the chins are doing.

Every once in awhile, I will email some of the more recent adoptive homes (say, a few months after they've adopted) and ask how the chins are doing, if they have any pictures... and (so far) people often gush about how happy they are with their chins...

Something I started doing recently is adding new adoptive homes as friends on facebook and then suggesting they "like" our fb page... I'm actually in a seminar all day (still), but I actually spent a lot of the day messaging back and forth on facebook with an adoptive home that's coming tonight and wanted to discuss chinchilla care, health, and genetics, and how to best set up shelves in a cage. Facebook is a surprisingly good way to keep in contact with homes.

We're the same as any rescue, we want the best for the chins. If for any reason we get a bad feeling about someone we hesitate to adopt. If there is anything, ANYTHING that draws the slightest bit of attention, we address it. If for some reason I'm worried about what someone might use as treats/chews, even though they've answered that question on the adoption form, I just ask them about it. Same goes for anything - until I'm comfortable, the chins don't go home.

We do sell supplies as well... I would assume people don't buy 10 pounds of Mazuri if they plan on feeding kaytee... so that helps, because by selling the supplies, when they buy them, I know they're getting the correct supplies.

And sure, there are times I worry.. but then the people tell me how they let out the chin and how it runs around.... we just had a lady come and get a 2nd rescue from us and she was telling me how the first one wall-surfs and gets as high as the dresser, and how the chin grabs pieces of paper out of the notebook of their kid... you can tell from the people talking, especially like on the phone when you can hear them talking... you can tell they really care for their chins and think they're awesome...and for me, knowing I was able to hook them up with a pet that they're so crazy about makes it all worth it.

Sorry, thought that would be more brief!
 

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I had 2 chins "follow me home" from the PetCo where they were dropped off in an small (5 gal) aquarium and were really greasy. I knew that I needed to get them out of there and the staff was really happy to have me take them... but I knew I didn't have time for more animals. I listed them on this site and get a responce right away. While I could have asked a zillion questions my thought was that their new parents were on the right site and must be caringa nd willing to do the right thing (and be 100% better than where they were).

knowing that I would need to let them go, I never named them because I knew that once I did I would not give them up :(

Maybe asking possible adopters to join this or another good site and be an active poster for a while would help you feel better. It's not a gaurntee, but someone is bound to get an idea of what they are agetting into and if they can't do thier part back out.
 
From the POV of an adopter, I went to the rescue to meet some chins (and subtly see if either my ex or I were allergic to any of their stuff) and spent a TON of time talking to the rescuer about care before I even brought home a chin. Then months later when we decided to look for a second one, she was more than happy to hear it b/c she'd gotten one in she thought would be great with our first guy. (That part... eh notsomuch.) But what she saw in us when we started the process, with me bugging her with dozens of questions and taking notes like a nut, was someone taking the responsibility seriously, which reassured her that Crash would have a good home w/ me.

All I can suggest would be to look for that sincerity and excitement in the person that takes these two. My ex's mother used to say "If it's worth doing at all, it's worth doing right the first time." :)
 
when Rhino came to me he was supposed to be a foster chin. within three days that went out the window and he was here to stay :))
 
An adoption contract is an ideal way to list expectations, but the face to face interview is even more important. Emails and phone calls set a first impression, but I have been surprised on more than one occasion by the actual demeanor of the potential adopter when we finally meet. How they handle the chins, their excitment level, willingness to learn and knowledge of these exotic pets all help develop the decision of whether or not they would make a better pet owner than myself. ;)

My goal is to find homes where these rescue chins will receive even more love and attention than I can give them. If I feel they would be better off here, with 70 or more chins all demanding my attention, then I am more than willing to hold off until I feel comfortable about who is going to adopt whom.
 
When I bought Bella, she was 2 and a half months old, just old enough to go to a new home. The breeder was really nervous about it since she was so young and I had never had one before. She gave me some great sites to go to so that I could learn more, and she really encouraged me to join CnH. After she saw that I became a member, she was much more comfortable. We still PM each other sometimes and I send her pics of Bella sometimes. I think that's really the best thing that you can do is give them as much resources as you can to prepare them and let them know what they are getting into, and make sure that you are there for them to answer questions that they may have. Good luck
 
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