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Diva Chins
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So, what do you do when an ex boyfriend just doesn't get it?
When you've told him countless times after you broke up "I think you're the most annoying, clingy, psychotic person on the face of the planet. Go away." and he still doesn't understand that you don't want to talk to him?
That's my problem.
I broke up with a guy over a year ago, and to this very day, he still calls me wanting me to hang out with him KNOWING I'm engaged. What is a girl to do?
The day we broke up, I'd been at my grandmas from about 8 in the morning til midnight ALL week due to my uncle dying, and it was my day to sleep in, rest, etc. He called me once an hour until I finally got mad, answered the phone and said "Listen jerk, I'll call you when I get up" and hung up, he continued to call back. I finally got up, he called again and said "How did you sleep?" I said "I dunno, some loser kept calling me" and he laughed. I broke down and said "Listen, we're looking for two different things in a relationship. I'm looking for a boyfriend who will still let me have my space when I need it, you're looking for someone to have their head shoved where the sun doesn't shine 24/7. It's not working out." He begged, pleaded, made excuses, wanted me to stay, etc. I didn't change my mind.
During our relationship, he was the clingiest man I've ever met. Also highly disrespectful to my parents. I don't enjoy being called 'baby' because I feel it's disrespectful to me, but when you do it infront of my parents, I feel that's not only disrespectful to me, it's disrespectful to them. He did both. I also told him not to leave messages on the answering machine because it's not my private phone and my parents hear that crap, he did anyway and kept saying "I love you baby" every time. Nauseating.
I should have ended it sooner, after 3 days of dating he said "I love you" and after a WEEK he insisted that I move in with him...Nope, not happening! I've went so far as to program his number into my phone as "DO NOT ANSWER" so my parents won't even answer it. It's not like I'm being mean and avoiding him, I've told him before "Look, I'm engaged, I don't want to hang out with you, I don't want to talk to you, I don't want to be friends. Leave me alone." and he doesn't get it. He even called me tonight and I just hit 'End' so the phone would stop ringing.
I've told James, begged him to do something, but I think he thinks it's funny because I get so angry and frustrated about it.
This might not exactly be a good place to get ex relationship advice, but I feel comfortable asking some people on here. What in the WORLD can I do to make him just go away? Getting his number blocked is impossible, we have Vonage and I've called before asking if they could block his number, they said the only thing they can do is fix it so that people who block their numbers can't call, and sadly I'm not lucky enough for him to do that. Other than getting my number changed, what can I do? I'm desperate.
When you've told him countless times after you broke up "I think you're the most annoying, clingy, psychotic person on the face of the planet. Go away." and he still doesn't understand that you don't want to talk to him?
That's my problem.
I broke up with a guy over a year ago, and to this very day, he still calls me wanting me to hang out with him KNOWING I'm engaged. What is a girl to do?
The day we broke up, I'd been at my grandmas from about 8 in the morning til midnight ALL week due to my uncle dying, and it was my day to sleep in, rest, etc. He called me once an hour until I finally got mad, answered the phone and said "Listen jerk, I'll call you when I get up" and hung up, he continued to call back. I finally got up, he called again and said "How did you sleep?" I said "I dunno, some loser kept calling me" and he laughed. I broke down and said "Listen, we're looking for two different things in a relationship. I'm looking for a boyfriend who will still let me have my space when I need it, you're looking for someone to have their head shoved where the sun doesn't shine 24/7. It's not working out." He begged, pleaded, made excuses, wanted me to stay, etc. I didn't change my mind.
During our relationship, he was the clingiest man I've ever met. Also highly disrespectful to my parents. I don't enjoy being called 'baby' because I feel it's disrespectful to me, but when you do it infront of my parents, I feel that's not only disrespectful to me, it's disrespectful to them. He did both. I also told him not to leave messages on the answering machine because it's not my private phone and my parents hear that crap, he did anyway and kept saying "I love you baby" every time. Nauseating.
I should have ended it sooner, after 3 days of dating he said "I love you" and after a WEEK he insisted that I move in with him...Nope, not happening! I've went so far as to program his number into my phone as "DO NOT ANSWER" so my parents won't even answer it. It's not like I'm being mean and avoiding him, I've told him before "Look, I'm engaged, I don't want to hang out with you, I don't want to talk to you, I don't want to be friends. Leave me alone." and he doesn't get it. He even called me tonight and I just hit 'End' so the phone would stop ringing.
I've told James, begged him to do something, but I think he thinks it's funny because I get so angry and frustrated about it.
This might not exactly be a good place to get ex relationship advice, but I feel comfortable asking some people on here. What in the WORLD can I do to make him just go away? Getting his number blocked is impossible, we have Vonage and I've called before asking if they could block his number, they said the only thing they can do is fix it so that people who block their numbers can't call, and sadly I'm not lucky enough for him to do that. Other than getting my number changed, what can I do? I'm desperate.
