My aunt gave me a horse when I was a senior in high school. I'd always loved horses but didn't have a ton of experience with them. It didn't take me long to realize that "loving horses" isn't good enough when you're faced with caring for one of these animals. They can be unpredictable and dangerous if you're not careful or don't know what you're doing. Sure, I'd read lots of horse books from the time I was a little kid, but the lack of actual experience with horses was a big handicap. I'd had my horse for less than 3 months when I went riding one day and Paris spooked at a passing school bus, and dumped and trampled me in the middle of a gravel road. I landed on my neck and upper back and was seriously lucky that I didn't get hurt more severely than I did, or even killed. As it was, I did sustain some injuries to my back (which still give me trouble today, years later). It didn't damage my love of horses, but it did instill a fear of riding in me. I no longer wanted to get on a horse, and if I did ride, I was unable to relax. (I highly suggest taking riding lessons before getting a horse, by the way. I never did, and as a result I was woefully naive as to how to handle and care for horses.)
Then I went to college. My school had a very good Animal Science program, and I took all the equine classes I could, including a riding class, in which I gradually regained my confidence. I also learned about equine nutrition, management and reproduction and went on a study tour of the horse industry, where I got to meet in person a lot of great people and horses in various aspects of the industry. I joined my school's equestrian team and attended IHSA shows around the Midwest. I was even Regional champion in my division one year. I was also on the horse judging team for a year. I learned SO much during my college career, I can't even fully explain how beneficial it was to me. My horse definitely benefited from my education as well.
My experience with horses has taught me patience, leadership, and perseverance. I also learned that horse ownership is not all rainbows and sunshine. It's hard work, it's expensive, it's often dirty, it can be physically, mentally and emotionally painful, and it can occasionally be inconvenient. In order to be the best horseman or -woman that you can be, you have to constantly be researching (yes, even after you get your horse - I feel like I've never stopped doing research since the day I brought my horse home) and it really helps to network with others - other horse owners, vets, trainers, farriers, extension specialists, etc. But for those who love the horsey way of life, it's a small price to pay for the joy of interacting on a daily basis with these unique and great animals.