life bites sometimes

[Scrat&SweetPea]

i got a call from my mom 20mins ago telling me that my youngest brother and his soon to be wife are done she wants him to find a new place to live she doesn't want to be with him anymore. and i can't see him go back to my grandma's house b/c he didn't drugs while he was there. so he's coming to live with us. but i told my mom we need help he can't live here for free he'll have his own car but there will be rules sign. i guess it's better they broke up now before they got married. i just feel bad for him he gets throwen from place to place and i know it's his own fault in a way b/c he's 20 years old and he should have got done with school but he just doesn't seem to want to get it. i just needed to rant. my mom said she will help and he gets food stamps so that will help him have food and stuff.

 

[LucksAngel28]

Sorry to hear that! Hope everything works out!

 

[Jeanette]

But why does it turn into your problem?

I'd be frustrated about that. I know that there is a recession and that people are getting laid off like crazy and that it's hard to make ends meet. So why does it turn to the responsible people to take care of people who don't want to help themselves?

I know that he's your brother and that you love him, but at 20, he's got to learn for himself. He will cause stress between you and Dusty, financial problems, etc. You can say no!

Sorry, I'm just worried about ya! I don't mean to be totally dissing your brother, but sometimes you've got to look out for #1.... YOURSELF!

 

[Scrat&SweetPea]

well lucky he moved back into his ex's house they aren't together but her grandparents he got a job. so everything is ok now.

 

[Jeanette]

That's great news! At least you know he's got a place to go and a steady income. But I know from experience how hard it is to live with an ex!!!