musketlove
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Hello
I am an archaeology graduate student, which necessitates me leaving the country for fieldwork in the summer. I have to go for about 5 weeks, leaving soon! My boyfriend lives with me, and will stay home to take care of my chinchilla, but I am worried about the potential behavioral affects. My boyfriend plays with him about 1 time a week when I clean his cage, otherwise I play with him 4-5 nights a week for about 30 minutes. I'm super close with him and pet and play with him all the time. My boyfriend interacts with him as well, but not so much.
I'm not worried about the chinchilla's interactions with the boyfriend-- they are totally used to each other. I'm worried about the potential impact it could have on our relationship. Is there anything I can do preemptively? And this is going to sound crazy, but should I have my boyfriend show my chinchilla the computer when we are skyping? I've been really careful since I've gotten him to establish a good bond-- the first night he managed to escape his cage and was terrified of me for a good week, but that was about 2 months ago and we're fine now. He is about 6 months old.
Any suggestions would be great!
I am an archaeology graduate student, which necessitates me leaving the country for fieldwork in the summer. I have to go for about 5 weeks, leaving soon! My boyfriend lives with me, and will stay home to take care of my chinchilla, but I am worried about the potential behavioral affects. My boyfriend plays with him about 1 time a week when I clean his cage, otherwise I play with him 4-5 nights a week for about 30 minutes. I'm super close with him and pet and play with him all the time. My boyfriend interacts with him as well, but not so much.
I'm not worried about the chinchilla's interactions with the boyfriend-- they are totally used to each other. I'm worried about the potential impact it could have on our relationship. Is there anything I can do preemptively? And this is going to sound crazy, but should I have my boyfriend show my chinchilla the computer when we are skyping? I've been really careful since I've gotten him to establish a good bond-- the first night he managed to escape his cage and was terrified of me for a good week, but that was about 2 months ago and we're fine now. He is about 6 months old.
Any suggestions would be great!