jmdebb
Well-known member
First of all I hope this is in the right place, sorry mods if it isn't, but it is about a behavior so I'm thinking it's okay.
Just curious if I had the only weird/skiddish male. [if that is the correct term to use--]
Anyway, first alittle background. I know what I'm going to ask is true because after going to the vet twice and speaking with someone who really know's chins, and then piecing together what I have seen but didn't realize was pertinate information at the time it was happening but, have since put all the pieces together and that's another reason I know it's true. But I was wondering if anyone else has a male that this happens too.
And also before I begin, so no one worries I want to put you at piece and yes I do pay very close attention now, and force feed when needed.
Okay, on to the real story. Bo is my smallest chin and most skiddish. I don't know why he is really skiddish because he was handled alot when I first got him, but he is. So what has happened twice, and I'm sure it will again but now I am ware of what triggers it I know what to look for, when my female(s) goes into heat, he stops eating and loses weight. I have had chins for three years and it's only been twice, it doesn't happen every time --thankfully, and that in itself is something curious although I'm glad it doesn't happen alot. So anyways, he obviously feels the female chinny hormones in the room even though he's not in the same cage, and like I said twice has stopped eating and lost weight. Both times he gained it back and like I said, I force fed when necessary. So I was just wondering if anyone else had a male that did this. I know there is nothing I can do to stop this from happening, and that I need to pay alot of attention to Bo, but was just wondering if this is something that happens to other males out there.
And one thing I should add is that second time this happened I was going through major anxiety so I'm sure that was part of it too [because he could feel my vibes so to speak and it made him nervous [or something] enough to stop eating.
I really hope that made sense, as alot of you know I have a hard time explaining things to make sense. So if I didn't explain it well and you have a question to make it more clear, just ask.
Thanks all,
Jean
Just curious if I had the only weird/skiddish male. [if that is the correct term to use--]
Anyway, first alittle background. I know what I'm going to ask is true because after going to the vet twice and speaking with someone who really know's chins, and then piecing together what I have seen but didn't realize was pertinate information at the time it was happening but, have since put all the pieces together and that's another reason I know it's true. But I was wondering if anyone else has a male that this happens too.
And also before I begin, so no one worries I want to put you at piece and yes I do pay very close attention now, and force feed when needed.
Okay, on to the real story. Bo is my smallest chin and most skiddish. I don't know why he is really skiddish because he was handled alot when I first got him, but he is. So what has happened twice, and I'm sure it will again but now I am ware of what triggers it I know what to look for, when my female(s) goes into heat, he stops eating and loses weight. I have had chins for three years and it's only been twice, it doesn't happen every time --thankfully, and that in itself is something curious although I'm glad it doesn't happen alot. So anyways, he obviously feels the female chinny hormones in the room even though he's not in the same cage, and like I said twice has stopped eating and lost weight. Both times he gained it back and like I said, I force fed when necessary. So I was just wondering if anyone else had a male that did this. I know there is nothing I can do to stop this from happening, and that I need to pay alot of attention to Bo, but was just wondering if this is something that happens to other males out there.
And one thing I should add is that second time this happened I was going through major anxiety so I'm sure that was part of it too [because he could feel my vibes so to speak and it made him nervous [or something] enough to stop eating.
I really hope that made sense, as alot of you know I have a hard time explaining things to make sense. So if I didn't explain it well and you have a question to make it more clear, just ask.
Thanks all,
Jean